Month: September 2012

It’s Like This Chickie Baby

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I spent most of the weekend writing which means I spent most of my time thinking about ways to get things to crawl up and out from their graves or from under your bed…note YOUR bed not mine and I ate a lot of pizza and drank a ton of ginger ale.

Now I know that it’s probably not healthy to shut yourself away to do this- I mean is it healthy to spend hours at a time thinking about Zombies and Werewolves and Ghouls who are having issues?

At first I thought no, it’s probably not.

I thought I could be doing something bad to my mental health by sticking my head into a grave over and over again  and possibly I could be warping my outlook on life in doing so.

But this weekend I discovered a creature called Honey Boo Boo and how many people spend hours watching her on tv and talking about her on-line and  it was like the chains fell off and I ran free and wrote my little heart out without fear of becoming a little more socially stunted then I already am- and I only stopped long enough to laugh and play with my cats who only love me because I can work the can opener.

Now if you don’t mind I have a house to get haunted-

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Tell Us How You Really Feel

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Do you know that if people on read something on the internet, they knew for sure, without a shadow of a doubt that what they are seeing is not the penultimate but the final word on any subject.

So I’m putting this on the internet so that anyone who sits next to me and whips out a phone and thinks it’s okay to take my picture even after I’ve told you a million times not to…

I HATE having my picture taken.

I don’t WANT my picture taken.

Do you get it now?

I’m not being cute or coy or silly- I really mean it. I get that people like to capture little moments and memories. But I’ve learned the hard way that once you lived through a little moment or a big moment it’s gone forever – so what’s the point in freezing that little moment in time?

You don’t get it back.

Ever.

Deal with it already.

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I hate cell phones. Hate them. I’d rather have a root canal, I’d rather have a tooth pulled I’d rather kiss a toilet seat then own one. 

That ‘s all I have to say tonight.

Later Gators.

The Olden Days

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There are writing prompts for teachers designed to help students focus on their schoolwork during the month of Halloween. I read that students are so  distracted by candy and costumes that they check out and it’s hard to hold their attention in class.

I can believe that.

When I was a kid me and my friends started planning for Halloween sometime towards the end of September and by Halloween we were out of our minds withe excitement and that was BEFORE we downed all that sugar.

But I wonder- do kids really get that excited over Halloween anymore?

I know that for a while  going to the Malls and trick or treating was a big deal – but it was THE MALL. People sent their kids into stores to trick or treat cashiers. I know that some of my friends who worked at the Malls when this started thought it was fun.  I thought it was sad. I thought it was the end of Halloween.

When me and my friends went out on Halloween night it was cold and it was really very dark because the neighborhoods I lived in were packed with evergreen trees and not  packed with a lot of street lights.

I remembered that the  leaves seemed to die and fall Halloween morning and I remember how satisfying it was when they would crunch under your feet as you raced along the sidewalk and across streets to houses with pumpkins that had been carved without the help of stencils and pumpkin carving tools that look like surgical instruments except for they are orange and made out of plastic and those things are small and …and they’re made out of PLASTIC for goodness sakes.

Anything made to carve and cut a Halloween decoration  needs  to be made of well sharpened stainless steel because nothing beats getting to use  THE BIG KNIFE  to carve a Halloween pumpkin – especially if you’re a kid and your Dad let’s you hold the knife as he guides it through the pumpkin’s flesh and all on your own he let’s you scoop out the insides with your Mom’s favorite soup ladle.

Me and my friends  agonized over days trying to decide what we wanted be for Halloween

 When I was really little the costumes were old school- we had those plastic masks that came in boxes with a matching plastic costume- I always wanted to be a dog or a princess…bet you didn’t see that coming did you?

One year I was Casper The Friendly Ghost my Aunt Sharon helped me pick it out. I’m pretty sure I only got it because she loved Casper and I wanted to make her happy. However-I was mortified the entire night.

Even the nifty Trick or Treat Bag she made for me didn’t  help me feel better about the sad situation I found myself in.

 Ghosts as far as I was concerned were not friendly. I figured if a real ghost saw me it would die- again-laughing  when it saw me.  The next year I refused the Witch costume when my Mom pointed it out at the store  because I thought witches were real too and what would happen if I got mistaken for one?

I could get burned at the stake or hung and not only would I be dead I wouldn’t get to eat my candy.

However one year I did give in and let myself get put into a  Vampire costume because I was sure they weren’t real. Plus it was a boy’s costume and I liked that because I got to wear my boots with my costume.

Do kids go through that Drama anymore?

I mean, how thrilling is t to go to the Mall and trick or treat the lady who sells cheese and sausage gift baskets? The cashier at the shoe store or the guy at the camping gear store? And don’t get me started on Green Halloween and Healthy Halloween snacks and Harvest Festivals where you can’t dress up like the Devil but you can dress up like a clown or a scarecrow.

I wouldn’t trust the person who made that one up, I’ll say that outright. That is a weird call.

But I wonder.

Just before Halloween, on their way home from school,  do kids still point houses that could be haunted? Gardens where someone could be hiding dead bodies that are being turned into Zombies and was that sound you heard the night before spaceships from Uranus ( yeah, well- we weren’t always serious when we discussed monsters ).

Or do they talk ( on cell phones ) about computer games where you know for sure you can find haunted houses or Zombies or Space Aliens.

So I wonder- do kids really get  distracted from their schoolwork  by Halloween?

I hope so.

I really do.

Cerbie

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Last week I shared me and Luis and Cerbie’s story–  we lost her last week.

It feels like it was yesterday- hours ago and I know it’s going to feel like that for a very long time. I also know that when I think about her I’ll probably ended up crying.  But along with that I know I will also get to remember the things that will make me smile- like

When it was snowing and she went outside she spent most of  her time running around the back yard with her eyes closed

Cerbie In The Snow 2009

And for her own reasons she never liked having her picture taken. She’d turn her head away from the camera and start to grumble. Or she would get up and just walk away. Gee. I wonder who she could have learned that from? Okay. I’ll fess up. She learned it from me. What can I say. She was my girl alright.

Cerbie NOT wanting her picture taken.

Cerbie didn’t just leave me and Luis behind- she left behind her sister Domino

And two of the kittens she raised- Darwin ( on the right ) went from being a kitten to a dog- and not just a small dog- oh no. He thinks he’s a big dog, and to this day – almost 10 years later that’s what he is-  a big dog just like his Cerbie.

Cerbie’s Boys- Micey is on the left- Darwin is on the right.

About five years ago I brought Kolchak home- and Cerbie and her sister for their own reasons took him in like he had been one of theirs all along- we lost one Blitzer a few years ago and Kolchak spent most of his time with Cerbie and Domino after that.

Kolchak- always a whisker away from Cerbie or Domino

Today me and Luis had a little remembrance service for Cerbie. Her sister was in the room with us and so were the kittens ( ok, they’re almost 10 years old but I still call them the kittens )

We put Cerbie’s urn near the window where the sun can shine on it during the day.

We all love her so very much.

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You Heard It Here First

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Today at my bus stop two of my fellow passengers who were on their phones stopped mid-whatever it is they do on those things when they’re not talking on them and telling the rest of the world at the tops of their lungs stuff they would just DIE if anyone found out( fill your drama in here ) to say ”  you can learn something new everyday now with this app …”

NOW? I thought. Wow. Let me think. What did we DO when we wanted to learn new things before?
Let me think. Oh- I remember. We read a book- and let’s see, we discussed ideas and asked people questions and they would answer in for the most part full sentences and even though we might not have agreed with what we heard if you were lucky you’d get a laugh or two.

Well. I don’t have a cell phone and I learn stuff too.

Like:

If you get a splinters under your fingernails often enough it’s not a big deal. But if you hold your finger up and show it to somebody else it will make them scream like somebody just lit their hair on fire AND jammed a bunch of splinters under all of their fingernails every single time.

And.

Juicy Fruit Gum has been in production since 1893- and nobody really knows what those fruity flavors are. I have my theories but I’ll keep those to myself. You’re welcome.

Wait- I have one more.

If you  sing the  song in the clip below to my husband’s cat Darwin, Darwin sinks his claws into whatever is handy and won’t let you pick him up. And if you call Darwin ” Rover” he panics and hides under the dining room table.

Oh. Don’t look at your screen like that and go all PETA on me- cats land on their feet almost all of the time and if you drop them from five feet up onto a bed they bounce.

So.

What ‘s new by you?

No. Really?

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Do you know there is a right way to blog?

It’s true. I ready it in a book and the book made a lot of sense and I even learned a couple of things.

For example I learned my blog sucks.

I’ll be darned.   I mean I read other blogs that are fun and they get a ton of traffic and comments but I didn’t think I was in the sucks catagory. But gee whiz that’s where I am.

So, I could go back and do it right or close this blog down and start a smart spiffy blog

OR

I can be honest with myself.

This is how I express myself- for real no bells or whistles. If me and you were sitting around and talking pretty much what you see is is how I sound when I talk. Except for in real life I have weirder ideas and I talk with my hands a lot plus I do that eye roll thing and I am convinced that one day my eyes are going to get stuck up there and I’m going to be blind but that’s another post.

There are times when I feel more like myself – and that means the ‘myself’ I like an awful lot when I write.

To bad that in the world of blogging that doesn’t count for much.

It’s Like This

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Sometimes I scoot around in those writing prompt sites- in this case it was Plinky Prompts and as I read them I got all snarky because one involved writing about smartphone apps- and as far as I’m concerned Texting has NOTHING to do with writing  and is the death knell of the complete thought so why oh why oh why is it  A WRITING PROMPT?

But there were a couple that did get me thinking so here we go:

What was the last movie that made you cry?

Paranormal.

It made me cry because I paid five bucks  for it and I watched it from start to finish and those minutes of my life  and my five dollars are gone forever. Worse yet I still have it because I can’t in good conscious give it away because I think there is a price to be paid for doing Evil things to your fellow human beings. I count giving away that DVD away to a fellow human being as one of those things.

Do you prefer a sunrise or sunset? (Or is it all the same to you?)

As anyone who has ever written a horror story will tell you- the line that separates the sound of laughter from screaming  terror is a very  thin line – – I think the line that separates sunrise from sunsets is the same line. Okay. I don’t really think that. But, I think that  someone with a romantic soul would probably want to answer that question and if I can put the idea into their head that I just twisted this prompt from the chance it could inspire romantic prose about nature or first kisses or last kisses or doing it on the beach to people thinking about the monster that does indeed live under their bed and waits for them to get up in the middle of the night to pee so that it can eat them and leave a trail of their guts to the basement then not only will I have made my daily word count but the bonus is,  I got to have fun doing it too.

Defend your vice.

Okay. You know there are Seven Deadly Sins right? How many days of the week are there? That’s right Seven. That means that the odds are you will F#@! up because there is a dedicated sin for each day of the week. Talk about a rigged game. So in my defense, I didn’t write those rules, I didn’t check the box and I don’t agree to those terms.

You want to damn me, then know me and we’ll talk. But you better make sure your closet is skeleton free before we have that little sit down.

 

Okay.

I might not have used the Prompt as they were intended to be used- but it’s not like they come with warning labels or instructions -you know like those instructions on Pizza Boxes that say to remove the Pizza from the carton before you bake it- so I did my best.

Plus this is my blog, and you know…

I can write whatever I want on it.

Later Gators.

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I Walk A Little Slower Now

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Last year my dog Cerberus- or Cerbie as I called her started to have some trouble walking.

That  didn’t come as a big surprise, she is a big dog and was 10 years old. She was showing her age but she would walk through it for the sole purpose of keeping up with me as I buzzed around my house-flying from room to room to do only God knows what.

Escaping from Demons or fire from the looks of it  because I  always  seemed to be in one big rush.

But when I saw Cerbie struggling on some days to keep up with me I started to slow down. And on the bad days I would stop whatever I was doing to tell her she was my good girl and that I would wait up for her.

And I did.

Sometimes a walk from my kitchen to the living room would take a minutes instead of a second . I considered those moments when I talked to Cerbie until she got up time well spent and I would give her a cookie or two – which I started to carry around with me for moments like that. Those were sweet moments when I think about it.

Over the year Cerbie- who was always by my side slowed down more- and so did I.

I wasn’t slowing down just at home for her.

When I was out I walked slower everywhere and I saw more. I saw more going on around me. I noticed more. I was getting to be a little more patient with everyone around me.  I learned that from Cerbie.

On the last day of her life Cerbie tried to follow me from room to room like she always did.

And then I turned around and she had collapsed Luis and I rushed her to the vet and on our way down there even though she was awake, she didn’t know I was there. I was losing her. I knew it.

When we got her to the Vet’s and I opened up the door to the back seat and one of the Vet’s assistants took a look at Cerbie and said we needed a stretcher that she was a big girl and I started to cry.

” No she isn’t ” I said ” She’s my little girl ” I’m sure I  sounded pathetic  but the young women who were there to help my Girl didn’t bat an eye. They just asked me her name and I said ” Cerbie”

You see, the day I brought Cerbie home when she was a puppy she weighed one pound less than my cat Wolfie. I would swear on a stack of bibles that Cerbie is little- but she was  big – she was a Retriever/Mastiff mix and weighed about 80 pounds- but she was my little girl and I never saw her as anything else.

So not even an hour after she collapsed I made the decision to let Cerbie who was 11 years old and my devoted companion go. I decided to let them put her down. The surgery sounded brutal and there was no guarantee she would make it through that. And my Little Girl who had only once in her life been away from home when she was Spayed and had never been separated from me for more than two months total in her entire life…I didn’t want to think about what it would have been like for her had she  made it through the surgery and maybe lived for a few days  scared in a hospital without her family-  so I said do it.

I’ve heard people talk about being with their pets when this is being done.  But they never said what it was like- I think I understand why. But this is what it was like for us.

They put Cerbie in this nice little room- two Vets assistants had put her on a blanket and were sitting with her on the floor and petting her when me and Luis came into the room.

She was already sedated and when she didn’t try to get up to be near me I died- right then and there my heart broke. I knew if she was even slightly aware of me at that point she wanted to get up and come to us. And she couldn’t. My poor girl.

So we got down on the floor with her the Vet sat down with us and she explained what she was going to do and she asked us if we were ready and I said yes.

First they gave her another sedative and as she did I told Cerbie that she was going to take a nap and when she woke up she would see her brother Wolfie again and Blitzer too- Blitzer was one of three kittens Cerbie took upon herself to raise and make her own.

And then she gave her the final injection and as she did I put my hand on Cerbie, I wanted her to feel me as she slipped away so that she would know that  she had done it. What she always did no matter what.

She was at my side.

What I’m putting up next might be  hard to look at- but they are the last pictures of me and Cerbie as she was passing away and I’m posting them for this reason:

Those last few minutes with Cerbie were painful, they were brutal but they will always be special to me because they were the last moments we had together on this Earth.

And they were beautiful.

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Cerbie as she is leaving me and Luis- September 17, 2012

With my Cerbie – We didn’t say good-bye. We told her we love her. Those were the last words she heard- September 17, 2012 Lynnwood, WA

 

You can read a follow up post I wrote about Cerbie and her  family

HERE

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